My boyfriend is not a virgin but i am. I'm bothered by the fact that my boyfriend's not a virgin...

I am not virgin, and my boyfriend is not taking a stand to marry me now. In Indian mentality, no one wants to marry a non virgin girl. What should I do now?

My boyfriend is not a virgin but i am

Remember, I'm sure you will be with someone after him. What should I do or say or not do or say? A male reader, , writes 23 August 2005 : Well, you have two options: 1 You can break up with him because you really want a virgin for a boyfriend or 2 you can deal with the fact that he isn't a virgin and get on with your relationship. Holding on to what you believe is right in your youth becomes so much more right the more fully you realize why you should hold on to it. I was in an 8 year relationship from high school we got married and so on. You have no idea how terrible the emotional distress is. I mustered the courgare to leave him and worked on myself and finished my degree. Mylnn again has excellent advice.

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I am not virgin, and my boyfriend is not taking a stand to marry me now. In Indian mentality, no one wants to marry a non virgin girl. What should I do now?

My boyfriend is not a virgin but i am

And plus I will be the first that it will actually feel good and it will be something emotional for us not just physical. She left me, and I her, nearly every year for months at a time. I don't see this relationship lasting very long, if you carry on doing what you're doing. And you as a person still have a lot of growing to do. You have a touch of that even if you have been with other people, too. We ended up hooking up but not anything big or serious.

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“Help! My Boyfriend’s Not a Virgin and It’s Killing Me!”

My boyfriend is not a virgin but i am

You're most probably jealous, that he had sex with another woman but you. I still have this gut wrenching feeling of regret and hurt, and even still i miss her. She has the view that it is her past and I was not part of it so I have no right to discuss it with her…. She felt horrible, she never loved these guys, and in fact only tried to have sex with them based on peer pressure from them and her 4 sisters examples. Recently I met a young lady with a child and I thought i could love her child. You have to change the way you think about waiting, and waiting with him. When he slept with her I hadn't even considered him as a crush, let alone a boyfriend.

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My boyfriend isn't a virgin but I am... and it kinda bothers me

My boyfriend is not a virgin but i am

And then we talk about pride, low self confidence, poison, happiness, torture, true love and all kind of great things and how shallow and immature is the virgin that gets annoyed by the truth and how much the non-virgin suffers because of the virgin. She had never even been in a remotely normal dating relationship, but somehow expected that a successful marriage would transpire out of thin air. Harboring all that hurt and jealousy wasn't doing myself or my relationship any favors, and it was incredibly unfair to him. I literally want to go back to my past self and slap her in the face for being so overly cautious about letting anyone close to her. I'd talk with him a lot before doing anything more with him.

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I am a virgin, but my boyfriend is not?

My boyfriend is not a virgin but i am

Nothing bc I can't change any of it though I still wish we could be eachothers 1sts. I have tortured myself and girlfriends about sexual past in plenty of my relationships. There is no way that they would have known what is truly good no matter how convinced or for what reason they had for doing it. Just a few personal oddities and I am cured lol. And then all of this stuff about sexual histories will seem kind of silly in retrospect. Ive talked to him about this alot. When you figure out love is all that matters after all, it sure makes everything else feel so small.

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I am not virgin, and my boyfriend is not taking a stand to marry me now. In Indian mentality, no one wants to marry a non virgin girl. What should I do now?

My boyfriend is not a virgin but i am

Watch and see which direction this girl goes in, and plan accordingly. Apparently at some point in my life this became extremely important to me without realizing it. And picturing her with that other guy, especially outside the context of a relationship, is tearing you to shreds. I have told him that many times, and it seems to help. In his free time Mike enjoys running, biking, and movies. Doesn't that mean you're special to him if he's no longer with them, but with you instead? Maybe one night when you two are cuddling together or what ever, bring it up. I told her I forgave her… I have not forgiven her.

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Is my boyfriend really a virgin?

My boyfriend is not a virgin but i am

Meanwhile, life for virgins are just as tough if not more so for us since we have to resist temptations, none of those are ever rewarded when we get into a relationship with non-virgins because they already stock up for themselves baggages from their own irresponsible actions. I wish now that I was. So what if you are not into persons that have a sexual past? Is that ok with you? Please report comments that you feel are in violation of these guidelines to keep discussions constructive. When you are in a relationship. But it keeps coming on my mind no matter how much try.

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